Salt n Pepa - None of you business!!

My favourite verse from this song and my new relationship mantra: "I treat a man like he treats me!!"

When I was in high school I didn't want to date anyone because I was so put off by all the gossip and slut-calling of girls who were sexually active. I want(ed) my sex life to by MY sex life but I knew that would be impossible until I left school and entered the "real world." When it come to intimate details, I play my cards close to my chest and expect my partners to do the same.

Women's sexual histories have long been publicly scrutinized and used to discredit and shame them. In court, women who are raped are often presented as easy, as sluts, the argument being therefore they "must" have consented. Chastity and sexual purity is expected from "good" women throughout many cultures.

HEY!! FUCK YOU!!!! MY SEX LIFE IS NONE OF YOUR  BUSINESS!!!!!!!!!

The video feature intimate partners of mixed racial backgrounds and mixed genders, with one of the most sensual scenes featuring a stunning blonde Claudia Schiffer look-a-like nuzzling a gorgeous brown-skin brother. So the message is not only is it none of your business what I do, it's also none of your business who I do it with!!